Christmas 2008 proved to be an excellent one. We enjoyed hours of holiday cheer with family and friends. The kids took full advantage of the wintry weather and lake effect and brushed up on their sledding skills. Santa had no problem finding our home (he better double check his naughty and nice list next year...we, indeed, were NOT deserving of all we got). It was a wonderful Christmas and much less hectic. My apologies for not getting out Christmas cards this season. Something had to give and I wasn't willing to let it be my sanity.
Sunday, December 28, 2008
Our Christmas in Review
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Sunday, December 21, 2008
Santa's Helper (or A Glutton for Punishment)
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Thursday, December 18, 2008
Peppermint Purgatory
...unwrapped by one easily entertained 7 year old... ...who is willing to finish the job so that the entire student body at Farmington Jr. High gets a mint buzz ...
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Tuesday, December 16, 2008
1971
I tried to roll over and go back to sleep but to no avail. Kennedy came in and gave me the birthday gift she bought with her own money. She is loving her monetary independence. After our daily mom/daughter chitchat, I got up to make my bed. The boys rushed in, made me climb back into the partially straightened sheets, and gave me birthday cuddles and kisses. Taiden has assured me that you're not truly old until "you're like 50" so I still have a few more years. 13 to be exact.
The morning has been sedated with snow. I'm delighted because I love the white stuff and it means there is a greater chance of having a white Christmas in 9 fast-approaching days.
37. I realize that we truly are an established family now and I am one of THOSE housewives. That's not a bad thing but I am definitely a "Ma'am" and not a "Miss" anymore. When did this happen? Britt had a new friend come over to play last week and when this boy's mom came to pick him up, I felt like an old dud. This cute young thing-of-a-mom came to pick up her oldest child who was playing with my third child. I felt a great need for Botox and Lipo for a fleeting moment. Then I went in and snuggled my baby and felt rejuvenated. Still young enough for a baby. Incredible how calming it is to kiss a baby's little piggies.
The vanilla bottle will remain untouched today. I will face this day with a clear mind and spring in my step. Lunch with my friend, Patricia. Calls and emails from family and friends. Our annual trek to the Bombay House for my birthday dinner. Chicken Kurma can melt away all insecurities about aging.
37 isn't bad. I'm old enough to have made plenty of mistakes that have allowed me to be one of life's object lessons. I've proven to be a slow learner. But truthfully, I wouldn't want to be in my 20's again. Those were years of "smack down" trials and errors and I'm much more comfortable and confident where I am now. I think I'm finally getting this thing called life.
37 isn't old. I'm just well warmed up and have completed a couple of laps.
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Sunday, December 14, 2008
Hanging Memories
Growing up, my mom would buy each of us an ornament that represented something about us for that year. When we married and started our own families, these ornaments came with us and hang on our trees today. I have a rocking horse to remind me of the time I broke my arm on a runaway horse in 8th grade. A sheet of cookies reflects the time when we took dozens of baked goodies to the homeless shelter and served dinner there. A piano hanging on my tree reminds me of enduring through 12 years of lessons. Some memories are more pleasant than others. :)
We have carried on this tradition with our kids. Each year, I pick up an ornament that represents them. It is one of their favorite things about Christmas. When we decorate the trees they love to find their own ornaments and reminisce about their meanings. I have stayed true to their personalities and stages throughout the years. Thus, you will find multiple Star Wars characters, a skateboarder catching air, a pocket knife, and an incredibly heinous Incredible Hulk that looks quite distorted and non-Christmas-ish. My trees will never have matching baubles and bows and sparkle like a show piece. Instead, it will adorn C-3PO's, Darth Vaders, Santas doing a myriad of crazy stunts, a Green Pickle, a variety of vehicles (including a decked out Mystery Machine!), diapered babies, and a mishmash of memories. The Festival of Trees won't be calling. That's all right.
Our memories for 2008:
Kennedy was one of the leads in her school's production of "School House Rock". She had the solo part in 4 songs. A microphone symbolizes her love of singing and all things musical.
Taiden is our resident snowboarder. This swooping action is what he plans on doing this year.
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Thursday, December 11, 2008
My Kids Have an Adverb Dependency
Taiden has scouts every Tuesday from 4:00 - 5:00 p.m. By 5:30 p.m. every Tuesday, I am reminding him to take off his scout shirt and hang it up in his closet. For us non-sewing mums, we have to watch that those ironed on badges don't go through too many wash cycles. As I put away laundry or check the boys' room, I see the same thing every week. A scout shirt that is technically hung up (if hung up simply means not touching the ground).
Actually, it is my fault that this poor shirt is so disheveled. I forgot to use an adverb. Taiden did as he was told. He hung up his shirt. What I should have said was "Taiden, hang up your shirt neatly, please". I forget that my kids are paralysed without descriptive words.
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Tuesday, December 9, 2008
Three Quarters of a Century
Everyone with their loot after the dice game. Grandma and Grandpa "cleaned house" during the game. However, as always, they generously spread the wealth with everyone and gave their prizes to the kids (and us adults who ended the game empty handed).
Additional comment: Shaw had a hard night last night - he thinks all the snugly love he gets during the day should continue through the night. I was talking to my dad this morning and told him how Jeff got the kids off to school so that I could catch up on some sleep. My dad isn't one to take such information and do nothing with it. He takes action. He showed up on my doorstep this afternoon with dinner for my family to enjoy tonight. He is amazing and thoughtful. Thanks Dad!
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Sunday, December 7, 2008
Shaw-zam
Say "adios" to the Bumbo. He can flip himself out of it.
The car seat is just a slip-n-slide now.
The world has so much to offer when you can see it from this angle.
(No baby was harmed in the making of this video.)
Just a quick explanation. Shaw has a dad who thinks babies and young children find enjoyment out of being used as playthings. Toys, of the human sort, that can be tossed or flipped or spun around as the video clearly depicts. Jeff used to do similar antics on his youngest brother, Ryan. Once he attached surgical tubing (used by his mom for resistance training during the 80's aerobic craze) to Ryan, hung him over the banister, and proceeded to participate in one of the earliest forms of bungee jumping. Clever? Yes. Completely grown out of this type of entertainment? Obviously not.
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Monday, December 1, 2008
Kennedy Has OCD...
Yes, she is holding the Twilight book in her hand at the theater.
As the sidebar suggestion says, the soundtrack is really good. Even Jeff , who hates Edward and all things Cullen, really likes it. Check out the links to listen:
- Muse - Supermassive Black Hole
- Paramore - Decode
- The Black Ghosts - Full Moon
- Linkin Park - Leave Out All the Rest
- Mutemath - Spotlight (Twilight Mix)
- Perry Farrell - Go All the Way Into the Twilight
- Collective Soul - Tremble for My Beloved
- Paramore - I Caught Myself
- Blue Foundation - Eyes on Fire
- Rob Pattison - Never Think
- Iron and Wine - Flightless Bird, American Mouth
- Carter Burwell - Bella's Lullaby
Posted by Kristen at 9:37 AM 7 comments
Friday, November 28, 2008
Abundance.
...the mess to clean after a party
because it means I have been surrounded by family and friends.
...the taxes I pay
because it means that I am employed.
...the clothes that fit a little too snug
because it means I have enough to eat.
...My shadow who watches me work
because it means I am in the sunshine.
...The spot I find at the far end of the parking lot
because it means I am capable of walking.
...All the complaining I hear about government
because it means we have freedom of speech.
...A lawn that needs mowing, windows that need cleaning, and gutters that need fixing
because it means I have a home.
...The lady behind me who sings off key
because it means that I can hear.
...My huge heating bill
because it means I am warm.
...The alarm that goes off in the early morning
because it means that I am alive.
...Weariness and aching muscles at the end of the day
because it means I have been productive.
...The piles of laundry and dishes
because it means that loved ones are nearby.
- author unknown
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Tuesday, November 25, 2008
Bootleggin'...
...that's what Jeff calls it. But I call it being industrious. I come from pioneer stock. It's instilled in me to be a hard worker (definitely), thrifty (yeah right), and coming up with cheaper ways of doing things (stop laughing, Jeff) . OK, maybe I only truly inherited the hard work ethic and ability to look very unattractive in photographs from my ancestors. The thrifty and "make it for much cheaper" genes must have mutated by the time they reached me. But I'm turning over a new leaf. I'm trying on a new mantra. I'm stretching myself into a "make it yourself" mold. And I'm starting by making my own
- First you use the best quality vanilla beans. Mine came from Mexico (pronounced "May-he-co" for added effect) These plump, fragrant, long beauties were smuggled (OK, they were actually shipped FedEx) across the border and delivered to an undisclosed person who happens to be in my ward and just happens to be Britt's former Sunbeam teacher. Should I be worried that they were measured out in kilos?
- Next comes the liquid. Can't use water or milk. Can't use Kool-Aid or Gatorade. Can't use the traditional Mormon fruit juice with Sprite. Nope. You gotta use, come even closer, vodka, gin, rum or brandy. There, I said it. Now you see where the bootleggin' tag comes in, huh? I'm choosing to use vodka because I'm told that it doesn't have a taste, just a kick. I wouldn't know. My supplier, who happens to live kitty-corner from me and has ancestral Russian ties, even does home delivery.
- Split beans, slip into vodka, shake occasionally and wait. The homemade vanilla extract can be used after 4 weeks, but the "priceless stuff" takes time...6 months to be exact. Like a fine wine, the extract will continue to improve with age and can last forever if properly stored. That gives me time to use up my cheap, not-so-tasty, Kroger brand imitation vanilla flavoring. I also learned how to make vanilla sugar. Great for baking.


Jeff says he will mark the Smirnoff bottle everyday with a marker to see if the liquid level changes. On exceptionally rough kids-are-driving-me-crazy-I-want-to-make-it-all-go-away days, a swig of 100 proof Russian triple distilled vodka may be all I need. Or maybe I bake up a batch of sugar cookies, heavily flavored with my personal stash.
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Sunday, November 23, 2008
Girl in a Whirl
1. For Shaw's sake, get the carpets professionally cleaned
7. Vow to take our girls to see it
8. Drive to Fashion Place Mall
16. Enjoy 1/3 of Chocolate Tower Cake at 11:30 p.m.
17. Discuss Edward with a drowsy, uninterested hubby
(For the privacy and respect of a good friend, I will not write about the events that took place in the car on the way home. You're welcome, _________.)
Saturday To Do List:
1. Enjoy another 1/3 of Chocolate Tower Cake for Brunch
2. Putz around house, enjoy family, do laundry, tickle baby
3. Leave house at 4:30 p.m. for another night of girl fun (promising Jeff I will NOT participate in retail therapy)
4. Let Kennedy plug in iPod to car stereo and listen to her sing "Crush" by David Archuleta over and over again
5. Meet mom at Costco where I fill up gas tank for $1.67/gal.!!!
6. Head to Gardner Village for Moonlight Madness
8. Eat at Archibald's
9. Spend entirely too much time in the Country Furniture store but there's so much to see and it's all so darn cute
10. Make mental notes of what I'd buy if I won the lottery
11. Call home to assure Jeff I am NOT participating in retail therapy
12. See friend and fellow blogger, Rita, in almost every store
13. Buy cheerful snowman wrapping paper
14. Treat mom to apple cider, Kennedy to a pink hot chocolate, and myself to an eggnog steamer
16. Buy several Christmas gifts
17. Get a fairy dust star placed on our cheeks
18. Eat a small fudge sample
19. Get choked up reading quotes in the photography/frame shop
20. Encourage Kennedy to have her picture taken with the uber creepy elf who looks like he's smelling her hair
22. Drop mom off at Costco to get her car, hug, and thank each other for the good company
23. Get home, wake up my sleeping baby to nurse because I'm dyin'
24. Check refrigerator for last 1/3 of Chocolate Tower Cake but realize that it's been eaten
25. Make mental note that Jeff deserves that last 1/3 of cake - he's been 100% supportive of my weekend merriment and understands that moms need to refill their individual reservoirs
26. Decline Kennedy's invitation to stay up 20 more minutes so we can say we saw the 2:00 a.m. hour.
27. Fall asleep before my head hits the pillow
(Before you start feeling sorry for Jeff, just know that his To Do List next weekend includes snow skiing)
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Thursday, November 20, 2008
Stinky Sweet
While my boys may not be the future poster children for "America's Cleanest Kids" (see previous post), I do have to say that they make up for their germ infested hands by being kind and thoughtful. 2 situations I observed this morning:
- Taiden asked if he could get Shaw out of his crib this morning. He ran upstairs to get his "daily Christmas gift" and I observed a sweet exchange between my oldest and youngest sons on the video baby monitor in my bedroom. Taiden quietly approached his brother, rubbed Shaw's bald little head, and said, "Hi there sweet boy." He then gathered him up in his blankets and said, "Come here sweetheart." 9 years old and not afraid of using the word sweetheart. That's my tender Taiden.
- Brittan has his Thanksgiving feast at school today. Everyone in the class was supposed to bring something they were grateful for. "It can't be bigger than my fist," Britt said quoting his teacher's instructions. He thought for half a nanosecond and decided he wanted to take a picture of Shaw. We cut one out and Brittan earnestly said, "Mom, when I show it to my class, I may get a little misty eyed". His exact words, I promise. Britt isn't afraid to show his love.
So, while my boys may not always be perfectly coiffed and they may not always smell like roses, I am grateful that they are boys, through and through, that they know how to love and show emotions, and they aren't afraid to express themselves tenderly. That means more to me than all the clean bedrooms in the world.
Posted by Kristen at 9:10 AM 4 comments
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
Partners in Grime
I know there is hope. Jeff is clean and neat. He's actually probably more of a germaphobe than I am. But when does this change occur? When do they realize that, YES, you need to wash your hands after cleaning the hamster cage and before you eat your lunch? When do they realize that, NO, it's not cool to smell like you've been crawling around on the cafeteria floor? And will they ever start feeling the grit, the grim, and filth under their fingernails?
Heavenly Father has blessed me with 3 wonderful sons. I know they'll be fine. I know they'll go out into the world and make me proud. I'll just follow along behind them with my can of Lysol.
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Friday, November 14, 2008
Can it be true?!
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Thursday, November 13, 2008
Lucky, Lucky Kids
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Monday, November 10, 2008
Governor Taiden
November 10 - 14, 2008, Taiden Mackintosh Gregson will be officially known as Governor in Mrs. Gundry's class at Farmington Elementary in Farmington, Utah. This title is bestowed upon him because he is student of the week in his class. Governor sounds so much cooler than any other bland name that simply states you're in the spotlight. I'm not sure exactly what he'll do as Governor of his class. Perhaps he'll lead his fellow 4th graders to lunch in an orderly fashion. He might get to help pass out things of importance. He might even be able to make executive decisions for his classmates and work in partnership with his teacher for the betterment of his class. I'm sure whatever Governor Taiden does, he will do it with a grin, a pleasant disposition, and a slight blush on his cheeks because he's not one to love being the center of attention.
As part of his gubernatorial inauguration (although gubernatorial is fun to say, who the heck came up with that word?), we put together a bulletin board telling about Taiden and showing what he's all about. We put up lots of pictures.
I Like:
Christmas, Halloween, skateboarding, snowboarding, good food, my baby brother Shaw, Disneyland, my Nintendo DS, the color blue, fall, Star Wars, computers, biking, exercising, soccer, Spongebob, Baked Beans, BYU, Baby Ruth candy bars, Lego and Bionicles, the book: Diary of a Wimpy Kid, song: Pictures of You
3 Things that Describe Me:
1. I am funny
2. I am nice
3. I like to eat
When I Grow Up I Want to Be:
Someone who builds robots
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